Our little man has arrived! And he
is so cute!! I had been on bed rest the whole week before due to high blood pressure. We had a false alarm the weekend before so
the doctor was being really careful. I had an appointment on Friday (Friday the
13th, a day before by due date) and because of my high blood
pressure, they did an ultra sound to check my amniotic fluid. It needed to be above 5cm and it was 14
cm. Then they hooked me up to a
machine that monitored Lincoln’s heart beat and made sure it didn’t dip or go
too high with a movement or a contraction. They also checked my blood pressure
(which was the reason I was on bed rest to begin with). It was about 148/96 when I got there
but after sitting for about 20 minutes it went down to about 130/80, which made
the doctor happy. It was still a
concern so the doctor decided that if he had not come by Sunday night they
would have me go to Labor and Delivery 6:30 Sunday night for something to
soften my cervices, keep it in for 12 hours, and then come back Monday to be
induced. Lael was deciding whether
to come down at all, seeing that she couldn’t stay for Monday if he didn’t come
on his own. She had already made
the trip last weekend for our false alarm and didn’t want to do it again. She had to work Saturday afternoon and so
she called me after work to see if I was contracting or anything. Nothing promising had happened but I
convinced her to come down anyway, praying all the while that Lincoln would be
accommodating and come when Lael could be there.
Seth, Lacey, and the kids were
coming over to the parentals Saturday afternoon so Dave and I decided to go
party with them and Lael. We had
dinner and then made Gingerbread houses with the kids. I really like that holiday tradition
=) I kept praying that Lincoln
would come, but still no consistent contractions. We left the parentals Saturday night a little disappointed.
At 3 am I went to the
bathroom. I don’t turn on any
lights at night when I go to the bathroom, so when I got back into bed and felt
a little moisture on my garments, I just thought it was normal pregnancy
discharge and was too tired to check.
At 4 am I woke up because it felt like I had a tampon that was
leaking. I went to the bathroom to
check and sure enough, I was leaking pink liquid. My water had broken!
I still didn’t feel any contractions so I calmly put in my contacts and
put up my hair. I then quietly
woke David up and told him we needed to go to the hospital. I knew I could not eat anything once I
got my epidural so we ate breakfast, gathered up our hospital bag, got dressed
and headed to the hospital. Dave
was silently freaking out on the inside =)
We got to the hospital a bit before
5 am Sunday morning. They checked
to make sure it actually was amniotic fluid, admitted me and took us to our
room. Very nice room by the
way. Since we knew that we were
for sure staying, we let mom know at about 6:15 am. She said to let her know once I was 4cm dilated (I was only
at a one). They started me on
Pitocin at about 7:00 am. My
contractions started getting stronger so I decided to get my epidural. They sent for the anesthesiologist and
while we waited, Dad came to the hospital to assist in a blessing at about
8:30. Dad anointed and Dave
sealed. I honestly can’t remember
what was said in the blessing but the spirit was strong.
I got my epidural at 8:45 and was
quickly on cloud nine. It didn’t
even hurt to get that thing shoved in my back. Actually, out of the whole experience, getting the IV was by
far the worst pain. The nurse who
started the IV tried on my left hand and could not get a good vein. The “needle” was bending and I got a
bit nauseous. She tried my
right hand and was successful, but still hurt equally as much.
The nurse would come in every hour
and rotate my from side to side.
She would also check to see how dilated I was. At 10:20 am I was still dilated only 1 cm. At 2 pm I was close to 4cm. This whole time I would just sleep in
between nurse visits. My
contractions were not very uniform, which we were informed, sometimes mean that
the baby’s head might be too big to fit through the pelvic bone. That proved not to be the case but at
about 3:30, Lincoln’s heartbeat would lower with each contraction. He was having a bit of stress so they
lowered the Pitocin and started putting fluid back into my uterus. They thought with my lack of amniotic
fluid, there might be pressure on the umbilical cord without the added
cushion. Dave decided to call Mom
and have her and Lael come down, just in case a c-section was required. At about 4pm I was at a 4 and Mom and Lael
arrive. Between then and 5:30 I
dilated to 9+ cm. The doctor
decided to let me “rest and descend” which means to let the contractions and
gravity push Lincoln down before I actually start pushing. At 6:40 the nurse had me start pushing
and I pushed until 8:50pm. Mom, Lael,
and Dave took turns feeding me ice, counting, and holding my legs or head with
each contraction. I was exhausted
when I started pushing so I don’t know how effective my pushing was, but it
must have been doing something because at 8:50, Dr. Young arrived and they got
the room ready for Lincoln’s arrival.
They put a mirror up so I could watch and at 9:29pm, Lincoln was born. Lael cut the
umbilical cord (Dave didn’t want to) and they promptly started cleaning him off
(which didn’t take too long because he was already really clean). He weighed 7 lb 5 oz and was 20 in
long. His first apgar score was 8
due to lack of color but after a minute it went up to 9. Between 9:30-10pm I delivered the
placenta and they stitched me up and cleaned up the room. While this was going on I got to hold
Lincoln for the first time. They
placed him on my chest and really the only thing I could see was his cone head
and these big, beautiful blue eyes looking at me. He was the most perfect baby I had ever seen and yes, I shed
a few tears.
Mom and Dad Nelson, Trevor and
Emily, and Dad were out in the waiting room and were let in to see me around 10
pm. Lincoln was very chill and
calm during the visit. I love
having family near by!
This experience has been a tender
mercy. From allowing Lael to be
there for the delivery, to holding my boy for the first time, it has let me
know how much the Lord loves me and has brought me closer to my Savior. And I’m sure that will only grow as I
have more experiences as a mother.
Look at that cone head. Poor thing. He looks like a pterodactyl, but a very cute pterodactyl.
Lael cutting the umbilical cord.
He weighed 7 lbs 5 oz
And was 20 inches long
Our first time holding our little man.
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Doesn't Linc's lips look like his ultra sound's in this picture! |
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Emily and Trevor |
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Dad and Mom Nelson, and Dave of course |
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Lael, Dad and Mom McVea |